Do you prefer "argumentative" girlfriends over "quiet" ones?

Congratulations! You're looking for a partner, not an accessory. If you find different ideas and points of view stimulating, that's a wonderful et. But having a woman with a point of view is going to help a lot in real practical aspects of your life. One of the terrific things about a long-term relationship is having someone who is truly on your side help you make decisions. If you just cultivate partners who are pive, you're going to miss valuable input. Life is complicated, and having someone at your side to help you look at different aspects of life is an incredible plus. I know people who have had long term relationships end, and you know what they say they miss the most? "the other voice" in contributing to the decisions in their lives. Best of luck in all your partnerships.